Apron Strings

Kids contribute so much to the chaos of family dynamics.  The constant energy of their mere presence gives family life so much spark and definition.  As they get older and begin to carve their individual identities separate from "The _____ Family", the change in dynamics can catch an unsuspecting parent surprise.  Those frequent cute little smiles that lit up the world are only captured in quick glimpses.  For some parents, accepting the inevitable... that your little ones have already started snipping away at the proverbial "apron strings" right under your nose, can jerk a few tears.  So, break out your parenting magazines and books.  Take a walk down memory lane with your parents, grandparents, and all the empty-nesters in your circle.  Then, brace your heart.  Little Johnnie and Emily are getting ready to not only snip at the apron strings but also a couple tiny slits in your heart....just the facts of life.  My advice? Listen to what they say and do.  Honing this skill is essential to successfully moving from parenting young children to parenting young adults.